Am i being too tough on myself?

honestly hon they sound fine HOWEVER..... remember a couple things..... your top should be modest - will help you with the shorts and don't wear heels. hey i know you're only 13 but you know as well as i do some kids are already wearing them and making your simply modest shorts seem sleazy. i give you a lot fo credit for not wanting to draw the wrong type of attention. wear the shorts with a nice t-shirt or cute short sleeved blouse and you'll be fine! may God continue to impose such wisdom and caution on your heart!!!